OMG, so it's NOT just me!!! We both felt dreadful the day after our wedding, I couldn't stop crying and Billy was moping about - it was 3 days before we went on honeymoon and my back gave out when we were there and I ended up getting a disc out a month after we got back. When we both spoke about it months later we both agreed that it felt like Boxing Day - we got so worked up for one day and then..........NOTHING. I went into overdrive organising my 30th birthday party for the following year and then last year I went into overdrive organising our anniversary and then our holiday to Cuba - we had many a fight about it, I was accused of being a control freak. The fact of the matter is that I was upset I had nothing to look forward to, nothing to plan and I felt empty. Now, at last, 3 years later, I learn there's a name for it!
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Love & light,
Alli x
Married Billy on Saturday 20th July 2002 at Barony Castle, Peebles and want to do it all over again!
Expecting our first child on 22nd April 2006
Love isn't about finding someone perfect....it's about learning to love an imperfect person....perfectly.
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