Well I've been looking for music all week, downloading and listening, over and over again. I really like the one called "nobody loves me like you do" by Whitney Houston and Jermaine Jackson from 1985. It's a bit corny but has the r n b edge to it. Whitney did another duet with Teddy Pendergrass called "hold me." I'm deciding between those two for my first dance song.

Brownstone (an intoxicating r n b group from the mid 90's) did a song called 5 miles to empty. You might want to download a few brownstone songs. Some of them are much too sexy but some might not be. All of their songs are outstanding. All the best.