Thanks girls. My plan to sort the photographer out is to send her an itinerary of the day (which I have to do anyway) but with loads of detailed notes about exactly what I want at each stage (e.g. when getting ready at my mum's I will be enjoying the morning with friends and family rather than performing, so please work discreetly in the background!). Then I'll give her a call to check that she's okay with all the details - if it's all in writing we should be okay. I'm also going to pick someone particularly assertive to be her contact on the day and delegate all decision making to them! When we first met she was really nice, I think it was a combination of me being a bit washed-out emotionally and also not as assertive about my choices as I would normally have been.

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* Liz & Stephen 11 June 2005 * Our special boy Zachary Samuel born 6th July '07