23-03-2005, 05:43 PM
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1 mad bird
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: redditch, near birmingham
Posts: 3,438
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aya chick,i can see why your a bit peeved, I would be too if i was you! friends are supposed to be exited for you for your wedding, and not burdeneing you with all thier probs, id probly say to her that u get the impression that shes got a lot going on in her life right now and would she feel less pressured if she wasnt your bridesmaid? ( even tho quietley id still be pissed off with her!) just smile sweetley and think about your lovley day!!! xxx  
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Originally Posted by Sunshine
Hi,
I am getting married in Sept and I have 3 adult bridesmaids (sister, sister in law to be and my friend and 2 little flower girls (my 2 little second cousins)
My friend has seen me once in about the last 9 months if not longer, has hardly called me, hardly replies to my emails , keeps on saying how worried she is about the dress I'll put her in and is hesitating about coming on my hen weekend to France due to saving up for other things such as a house.....also telling me her sister (who lives abroad) will be coming over from Spain around the time of the hen doo or the week before.
What would you all do if you had this on your hands?
I have been friends with this girl for 16 years or so. She's also a bmaid for another of her mates in Nov and has booked for her hen doo  (
Help!
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