I contacted my friend to finalize arrangements for the try on session and asked her was she still happy about being a bridesmaid (Let's now bear in mind that I have never detected an ounze of excitement from day 1 but anyhow....) or if she would prefer to be a day guest. She came back telling me it would probz be best for her to be a day guest if "I" am having doubts........so I've told her I am cool with the day guest thing and said my concerns only arose from her reactions and lack of interest, comments about the dress etc..
And you know what.......I have a whole load of stress lifted off my shoulders now.......also don't have to splash out on someone who quite frankly doesn't deserve it.

I agree with one of the previous replies about knowing who your friends are when planning the wedding.......couldn't put that better myself.


Cheers guys for all your kind advice! Much appreesh xx