My venue are decorating it for me too. However this is what I am having:

Top table 2 small flower arangements and in between them a vase filled with pearls with one calalily in the vase.

Other tables: 2 ivory baloons with smaller lilac heart baloons in side them, with helium so that they float above the table - high enough so that they are not in your eye-line when you sit down, but low enough to get the effect as you walk in. In the middle of the table a little candle in a glass thing on top of a tiny pedestal with a couple of flowers and ribbon at the base. Plus the favours in a basket. Some table ******** and napkins are alternated lilac and ivory.

Hope that helps. We got some of our ideas from bridal magazines, the others were my mum, she is very creative.

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