Hi Liz,
I really feel for you as I'm going through a similar panic with lots of bits and pieces (like what colour ink to have on the invites/what do do about photography etc - but that's another story!) It's so awful to have all these doubts/worries creeping into\your head isn't it?

I am in a similar situation to you with having step-parents and until now I hadn't thought of getting them corsages/button holes. I think I would ask my florist for advice on this one but I definitely won't be having them for step brothers/sisters or the bridesmaid/ best man's partners. You could go on forever couldn't you?!

I think your jewellery sounds lovely, but like Karen Michelle said, you can always change your mind again. I'm sure it's not too late. I'm also worried about looking pale so I'll probably have a St. Tropez fake tan done. Could this be a possibility for you?

We went to look at rings at the weekend and our jeweller said he could gave them ready in a couple of weeks. I would start looking as soon as poss though to put your mind at rest.

As for the last one -panic, I'm still looking for the answer!
I'm thinking of getting some Bach Rescue Remedy from Boots as it's calmed me down in the past with things like interviews and driving tests! Either that or a bubbly bath and a glass of wine!

Good luck with the rest of your planning. I'm sure it will all come together and be brilliant.
Rachel
xxx