I would stick to my guns as well.
we are in a simillar situation.
We booked with the church and florist first,(March of last year) and than got an email from the minister in January (great guy) that he had another request for the same day and it was up to us if they could get married on "our day" (isn't he a prince?) So i said sure, no problem as long as... and than listed my demands, cheeky arn't I. I also asked if thay would like to share flowers as my florist is also a friend who would be coming to the wedding, She wanted to be done with the flowers and getting ready for the wedding by 2. (which is when the other wedding starts) so... It would just make it easier on everyone. long story short Bride #2 thew a bridezilla fit and she is not getting married in 'my church' on 'MY day' God I sound awful but what can you do?
first come...
so stick to your guns with all your might.
