Hi guys,

As with most things it appears I have no idea about some wedding things....can you help?

1. is it okay for us NOT to have a "first dance" but just to have everyone in bridal party start with us too - cant bear the thought of it!

2. who do you send wedding cake to? People who were invited and couldnt come / people who gave presents and idnt come what?!

3. We have pressies for ushers, best man, parents and bridesmaids - is that it? Is it okay to just hand them out during the night and say TQ during the speeches - seriously honest opinion needed)

4. we couldnt afford "reportage" photographers so do you reckon our mates will do a decent job given a couple of disposables ??? (also have them on each table) (p.s our mates are normal unlike moi!)

5. did anyone else get presents from people theyve never met / who arent invited to wedding but know your parents etc - sending out TQs but feel cheeky just accepting all this stuff - no choice though i guess but some people have been waaaaaaaaaaay to generous in this way.!

Thanks guys - i think i was at the back of the clue when the rules of wedding ettiquette and TTC (see other posts) were handed out?!

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