1. Yes though you might find that the sods who promised to get up on teh floor for the first dance with you, don't!
2. Erm, no one as far as i remember
3. Yes, we didn't do this during the speeches
4. yes, we had cameras on the tables and it worked brilliantly! They gave us a really good view of the evening from the guests point of view and were hilarious. We did a wee rhyme to paste on teh back of them to make sure they were used and returned
5. yes, loads of friends of our parents gave us stuff
hope that helps
Rxx
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Originally Posted by APPARENTLY2CALM
Hi guys,
As with most things it appears I have no idea about some wedding things....can you help?
1. is it okay for us NOT to have a "first dance" but just to have everyone in bridal party start with us too - cant bear the thought of it!
2. who do you send wedding cake to? People who were invited and couldnt come / people who gave presents and idnt come what?!
3. We have pressies for ushers, best man, parents and bridesmaids - is that it? Is it okay to just hand them out during the night and say TQ during the speeches - seriously honest opinion needed)
4. we couldnt afford "reportage" photographers so do you reckon our mates will do a decent job given a couple of disposables ??? (also have them on each table) (p.s our mates are normal unlike moi!)
5. did anyone else get presents from people theyve never met / who arent invited to wedding but know your parents etc - sending out TQs but feel cheeky just accepting all this stuff - no choice though i guess but some people have been waaaaaaaaaaay to generous in this way.!
Thanks guys - i think i was at the back of the clue when the rules of wedding ettiquette and TTC (see other posts) were handed out?!
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