Karen,

I can understand that you\'re worried about causing bad relations, but they have been completely unreasonable with you.

Have you got a contract - if so does it discuss the details of your ceremony?

Is your heart completely and utterly set on that venue?

I think I\'d be very inclined to try to get my money back on the grounds that I was misled and try to find somewhere else.

If you don\'t want to do that, then you should do some foot stomping with the people in higher places to find out what their plans are exactly..

You need to know what\'s going on - I\'d be going insane if I was in the same position.

I\'m sorry you\'re having such a rough time.

Mel
xxx