Janey,

I was having a dilemma over invitations this weekend. My mum whipped Debretts Ettiqutte guide out and apparently if your FIL2Bs new wife had anything to do with the break up of the marriage then she doesn't have to have anything to do with the top table and you can sit her at the back of the church if you like!

Am I the only one who thinks this is a little bit scary? I don't think I will be consulting Debretts much for our wedding. I might steal it off my mum and burn it in case she gets carried away!

Anyway, I think my point was to sod tradition and just do what you would like! I hope it sorts itself out.

Em

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Emily and Tim
21st September 2002