There are some family politics involved. My parents are divorced, and Mum remarried. Only my Dad has contrbuted towards the wedding. My Mum see's his money as hers, still, despite the fact they have been seperated for 17 years (!!!!)

So, Steve's parents have contributed as much as my Dad. But my Mum has contributed nothing. Steve are are are putting in about 3k more than each Dad has given us, so we feel we are entitled to say we are hosting it along with our parents.

Also, we are both in our early 30's,well I am, Steve is 35! We have been together nearly 13 years, and have a home together.

I personally feel it would be appropriate to send invites from steve & I, and parents. Steves Dad is happy with this, although I have an inkling that my Mum isn't happy.

Dilemma!!

Caline

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Marrying Steve on 26th August this year!!