OK heres my two'pennorth then.
My hair was past my waist and the amount of clips and pins and harispray it took to put up was

but then it is fine just loads of it.
Personally I would go higher and maybe 'tighter'? The hairdresser 'god love her' told me that it would loosen during the day.So in the morning I had a non cosmetic facelift it was that tight.But it stayed put all day and night.
Maybe instead of the Gyp ( yes it is babys breath, gyp is the fancy name) what about individual flowers like orange blossom (if its the right time of year) O/B smells divine (Imo) and the flowers are white plus I think there is some symbolism to do with weddings tiedd in with it.