I think I\'m going to have to ween myself off all the other wedding sites - starting to feel more and more left out the more I read them. You really get the impression that if your not spending £20,000 on your wedding then your not one of them.

Not that I\'m botheres about that bit, but it\'s a little hard to find something to chat about with people spending fortunes on everything, or with people that are matching the napkins with the dress.

Ok, exagerating a little ;) . . . but am I the only one who feels this way? The trappings are not that important to me, but it\'s a little depressing when you think \"we deserve that too\" and you have £3,500 to do everything on. Erm . . . am I making any sense? :lol: You get it from every side - wedding websites, magazines, and even other brides. I have to admit I was really proud of the fact we were doing it all so cheaply, but you start to feel . . .not sure really, sort of second class citizen, a bit patronised.

Erm . . . I\'m just rambling here, you all go on about your business and ignore me. ;) :lol:

[Edited on 21/11/01 by Bev]