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Dave had gone out to "have something to eat and watch the football with his friend" and i am sat here feeling alone and sad that he has managed to get over me so fast.. Mind you i supose he was already over me in March when he started sleeping around and from what he says has not been happy for 18 months..
Dont really know you Taz, but time is a great healer and 6 months down the line you will be over all this and you will have such a better life.
when you go your seperate ways for good things will be a lot easier as his social life wont be in your face as much.
A suggestion for you is to join a gym, you can then go out when he goes out, get fit and you will meet loads of new people in the proceeds.
like i said earlier 6 months down the line, you will only think of him every now and again, cos you will be enjoying your new found freedom to much , and may even find a new man.
meanwhile you will be all fit and toned without a care in the world, whilst he is shagging about on his new missus...
If he does see you again, he will realise just what he actually through away.
take care
Donna x
It really does get better - the only thing that helps the healing is time. Everything else helps, being busy and active etc, but you still need to find time to grieve for the death of your marriage. Only then can you move on.
You will have jubilantly happy and carefree days, but there'll be the odd day that smacks you in the face and fills you with terror and guilt and remorse. They get fewer and further between and less traumatic and then eventually disappear altogether.
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I hope that my child, looking back on today
Will remember a mother who had time to play;
Because children grow up while you're not looking,
There are years ahead for cleaning and cooking.
So, quiet now cobwebs go to sleep.
I'm nursing my baby, and babies don't keep.
Hun, you need to go out there and enjoy life and do things on your own or with your own friends. Please stop dwelling on how often ur ex goes out. Concentrate more on when you're going out and less on him. I know thats easier said than done!
You're still picking yourself up from a fall. I'm sure most of us can sympathise with you in a small way. Breaking up with someone you love is so hard when its not your decision. It certainly gets loads better. It just takes an amount of time.
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Living with that thoughtless fop is not going to be helping at the moment but I guarantee you'll feel so much better in a few months!
thoughtless fop? my, shes being polite today
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Clare, it will get easier. Living with him and having his social life slapped accross your face every day has got to be hard. You are probably (at least a little bit) still thinking in the 'he's my OH and where is he' mode.
But liek Lauz says you also need to grieve..you can't just 'be over it'. Its a huge thing to lose and have to learn to be without.
We're here for you through the crap days honey...just shout if you need absolutely anything xxx
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And I am sure the buggers make more of an effort to go out and about in order to rub our noses in it, when this sort of thing happens. Thing is, when you are low, it's harder to get out and about and DO something about it cos you feel to low to do it (Catch 22, I believe) but if you went to the gym, got some endorphins into you etc - you WOULD feel better. And the sooner you are out of that house, the better too!
N xxx
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