Ulkrika's starting again - Wedding Forum

Lady Rools · #1 (**permalink**) 23-10-2005, 06:48 PM

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/entertain...iz/4368782.stm

Just read this, was surprised actually as I always thought they were quite happy together.

I wonder who she will marry next?

bron · #2 (**permalink**) 23-10-2005, 06:54 PM

will she have a fourth child by a fourth man
Im sure theres a name for people like her

Laurie · #3 (**permalink**) 23-10-2005, 06:59 PM

I've just read about this on Yahoo as well.

Those poor kids! 3 different fathers for three children

I do hope that she finds happiness one day but fear she may be living in a little bit of a make believe world expecting it to be sunshine and flowers 24/7.

#4 (**permalink**) 23-10-2005, 07:05 PM

She got kicked about by Stan Collymore *allegedly* and then married the prize in her own game show..Owww Ulrika.

Ang · #5 (**permalink**) 23-10-2005, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by mazz

She got kicked about by Stan Collymore *allegedly*

Nothing alleged about it. He did it in public and has also admitted to doing it.

I like Ulrika. I didn't used to like her but I've warmed to her over the years. Her judgment and luck with men hasn't always been brilliant but then who am I to talk with two failed marriages behind me? I hope they can sort things out and be happy together. Failing that I hope she finds the peace and happiness she's looking for. Maybe she needs to find it within herself before she can find it in a relationship.

#6 (**permalink**) 23-10-2005, 07:26 PM

yup He did Ang but Im just careful incase I get sued lol! Bless her though. I always had some mad wish she would get together with Vic Reeves!

Taz · #7 (**permalink**) 24-10-2005, 05:00 AM

Any marriage ending is sad but she really does pick them.. Maybe next time eh!!!

bron · #8 (**permalink**) 24-10-2005, 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Taz

Any marriage ending is sad but she really does pick them.. Maybe next time eh!!!

maybe its not the men ..... have to say LAnce 'seemed' ok. Maybe its her

Ang · #9 (**permalink**) 24-10-2005, 10:23 AM

I think she's looking for roses round the door and falls head over heels all too easily. I get the feeling she has low self esteem which can affect a relationship a lot. I read something she'd written not long back about women that get too thin and she knew she was getting scrawny yet she's gone on and lost four stone that she didn't need to. Maybe she puts too high an expectation on what she thinks marriage should be who knows. All I know is you can't judge on what someone seems like.

Everyone thought my first husband was a "lovely fella" but he was getting pissed and knocking me senseless behind closed doors and went on to do it to his next wife. The same was said about my second husband by people who didn't know him but he was tight, emotionally cruel and controlling. No one saw him not paying his way here and going to work with a £400+ a week wage in his pocket leaving me to try and run the house on a wage of less than £50. People who did know him told me not to get involved, not to marry him and then after asked me why I'd done it. Those that didn't told me how lucky I was to have fallen on my feet with such a wonderful man.

None of us know what goes on behind closed doors. It's all well and good looking in and saying how nice someone seems, how happy someone is but what goes on inside can be entirely different. The main thing is her kids are ok. So they've got different dads which isn't ideal but unfortunately we don't live in an ideal world. I think she needs to concentrate on giving them some stability in their lives and if that means time on her own then so be it.

vickilewis · #10 (**permalink**) 24-10-2005, 10:35 AM

I have to agree about liking her actually. She did pick a duff one in Marcus whatshisname cos he was a coward and left her with a sick newborn but I believe she dealt with that situation well. She was out of the spotlight for a long time while Bo was in medical treatment and no doubt nursing her broken heart over Marcus.

She met lance at a difficult time it appeared and he gave her confidence and support and compassion...her feelings in response could easily be misconstrued as true love yada yada and mayeb time has now taught her she doesn't love him. Who knows? Im sure though we've all been victims of rebound relationships at some point.

Then she went on to have a baby with her new husband who she obviously believed she was in love with - that is no crime as far as I'm aware. If I'm ever to remarry I might have another baby by a second marriage/man so I guess Im in the same boat as Ulrika!

At least she has walked away befopre anything got nasty or there was any infidelity etc...that would be far worse in my opinion. Good luck to her I say xx

Lady Rools · #11 (**permalink**) 24-10-2005, 04:54 PM

I don't like Ulrika, never have. She could marry a gazillion people all who I fancied, and i still wouldn't like her. Don't even know why, bit random of me.

I feel bad for anyone who's marriage breaks down, whoever said that perhaps she has her own self esteem issues that she needs to address I agree with. According to the papers they worked at it, got to give them that

sairy mary · #12 (**permalink**) 24-10-2005, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by mazz

yup He did Ang but Im just careful incase I get sued lol! Bless her though. I always had some mad wish she would get together with Vic Reeves!

apparently his first marriage ended coz he was smitten with ulrika or so i heard! i must admit, i do agree with mazz!
gotta chuckle tho, every time i hear the name lance, i keep thinking, ibet she d like to lance his bits off, now hes taking comfort with a mystry blonde!!!!!

Dawnie · #13 (**permalink**) 25-10-2005, 07:38 AM

I think it's really sad actually. After reading her autobiography I admit I really warmed to her and wanted her to be happy.

Shame!

nikki · #14 (**permalink**) 25-10-2005, 04:16 PM

I feel sorry for anyone who so obviously wants to be loved like she does. Poor Ulrika. And she's yet another of the celebrity "TOO THIN!!" club. Seems to me, they either get applauded for losing three stone ("How XXX dropped her baby fat!!!") or dissed three months later for being too thin "YUMMY MUMMIES HOOKED ON EXERCISE!!!"). It seems a shame, it really does. i am so glad I am not famous. It;s bad enough being dissected by my inlaws; God knows how I'd cope being disected by the media too.

Teresa · #15 (**permalink**) 26-10-2005, 05:07 AM

I think it is sad too but then it is when any marriage ends.

I hope she can find happiness.