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Old 02-04-2006, 09:28 AM
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I’ve been a bit preoccupied recently so have been popping in but not posting much, but now is the right time to tell you all that my marriage has ended. Things have been rocky for a while but we papered over the cracks and never resolved certain things properly, this led to my husband leaving me two weeks ago.

I imagine he left the marriage mentally a few months back and this has meant it’s too late for him to want to try & find out when we started going wrong. I’m currently attending counselling which I would thoroughly recommend to anyone. And maybe as a piece of advice…we said we were going to do it together and ‘never got round to it’ which has resulted in the end of our marriage.

I’ll be a while before I am ready again to be an active poster but I’ll pop in to see what you’re all up to.

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Old 02-04-2006, 09:32 AM
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oh Kezzer I have no idea what to say
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Old 02-04-2006, 09:34 AM
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I'm so sorry. Good luck with the counselling.

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Old 02-04-2006, 09:45 AM
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Just popped on here briefly Kezzer, but had to post. I feel very sad reading your post. Make sure you look after yourself and keep going to the counselling. Not sure what else to say.

Look after youself. x x
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Old 02-04-2006, 10:40 AM
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Oh Kezzer, I'm so very sorry ..

I hope the counselling helps you come to terms with things.
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Old 02-04-2006, 10:48 AM
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Oh love

I'm so sorry to hear this. I am lost for words.

I will be thinking of you though, and really hope you pull through this okay.

Take care, you know where we are...

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Old 02-04-2006, 11:05 AM
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Kezzer I'm really sorry to hear about this. I'm glad the counselling is helping somewhat. Lots of love to you
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Old 02-04-2006, 11:17 AM
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i dont know what to say apart from im so sorry to hear your news.

love to you x
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Old 02-04-2006, 12:23 PM
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Oh Kezzer i am so so sorry. Hope you're doing ok babe and that the counselling is helping.

You know where i am if there's anything i can do or if you need someone to sound off to.

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Old 02-04-2006, 12:53 PM
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Oh Kezzer, so sorry to hear this

Lots of love and to you.
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Old 02-04-2006, 01:00 PM
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I have no idea what to say, am totally gobsmacked. I hope this counselling is helping honey, you know where we are if you want to get away for a weekend.

Love to you xxx Will pray for you darling girl x
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Old 02-04-2006, 01:09 PM
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Really sorry to hear this Kezzer, and hope the counselling continues to be a support for you, and don't forget everyone here is around for you too

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Old 02-04-2006, 01:52 PM
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kez babes - sorry to hear your news. Good luck with the counselling and having been there you know where i am if you need a shoulder

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Old 02-04-2006, 02:19 PM
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Old 02-04-2006, 04:18 PM
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mate, im really sorry to hear about your sad news, i hope you can be strong thru it, and you know where we all are if you want a chat or just put the world to rights.xxxxxxx
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Old 02-04-2006, 04:21 PM
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Hi Kezzer,
Really sorry to hear the news, hope everything works out for you.
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Old 02-04-2006, 04:28 PM
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Kezzer hunny, for once in my life I am lost for words....

All I can offer is a massive and the offer of an ear and a buddy - Im not that far away.

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Old 02-04-2006, 05:05 PM
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Couldn't read and run, but don't know what yo say - just wanted to send you another

Take care,
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hi

i want say is from me tasha xxxxx
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Old 03-04-2006, 02:46 AM
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Kezzer, so sorry to hear this

Am thinking of you
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Old 03-04-2006, 03:53 AM
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Oh Kezzer, I am so very sorry to hear this.

I hope the counselling continues to help and you know where I am if there is anything I can do or if you want to escape for a few days.

Lots of Love
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Old 03-04-2006, 05:22 AM
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Thanks for all your kind words xx
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