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26-06-2006, 01:34 PM
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Ey Up Me Duck!
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Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: No fixed abode..
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Well here I am
It is now all official, Matt & I are splitting up.
He just no longer loves me as a Wife so feels it is best that we part. This does not mean we will part from each others lives. We are best friends and that is where he does love me as a best friend.
So now goes the long ol process of putting the house on the market. Matt is going to buy a new house but I am going to have to rent as I don't earn enough to get a mortgage. But that won't be straight away as I have decided to go to Australia for a month after the house is sold (well that is if my auntie will have me). This will help me to clear my head and prepare me for what is to come ahead.
We are not getting divorced or anything so you never know we could get back together in the future.
This week he has gone to stay at his parents and then he will be back home.
We are getting on just as we have done in the past(apart from he is now in the spare room), which is kinda strange but I like to have him near me as much as possible cos I know it is going to be so hard when we finally part.
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Live your life until Love is found Or Loves gonna get you down Mika
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26-06-2006, 01:45 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Yorkshire
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Karen love I don't really know what to say other than I'm so sorry.  If you need anything or there's anything I can do you know where I am |
26-06-2006, 01:49 PM
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Soon to be mummy of two!
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Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Back home in the shire of Aberdeen
Posts: 14,186
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I'm so sorry Karen
Like Ang, anything i can do just shout |
26-06-2006, 02:04 PM
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Valentine Smuggie/New Mum
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Glossop
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You know where to find me if you want to talk
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I hope that my child, looking back on today
Will remember a mother who had time to play;
Because children grow up while you're not looking,
There are years ahead for cleaning and cooking.
So, quiet now cobwebs go to sleep.
I'm nursing my baby, and babies don't keep.
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26-06-2006, 02:04 PM
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Shoe-a-holic
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: South Wales
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I know there isn't anything I can say but didn't want to read and run. And for what my opinion is worth I think a trip to Australia sounds like a good idea. |
26-06-2006, 02:09 PM
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I am so sorry to hear this Karen
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26-06-2006, 02:21 PM
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Cat Lover
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Middlesex
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Karen
Sending huge cuddles your way, you seem to be handling this with so much strength
please pm me if you need to talk/rant/cry
sending all my love
Sarah
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26-06-2006, 03:16 PM
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Save the Ch**rl*ader ...
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: West Yorkshire
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So sorry |
26-06-2006, 03:30 PM
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Freya's Mummy.
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: The land of make believe
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Karen, i am so sorry to hear this. I am here if you need to talk, cry whatever..
You sound so strong and i wish you all the strength i can for you to get through this.
Love and huge hugs
Clare xx
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26-06-2006, 04:33 PM
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Its grand
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: Redcar
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Oh Karen , dont know what to say but couldnt read and run.
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26-06-2006, 04:38 PM
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Very proud mummy
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Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Reading, UK
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Really sorry to hear this Karen. I hope you get the chance to get that break in Oz, sounds like a really good plan.
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26-06-2006, 04:48 PM
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Getting on with real life
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Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: somwhere out there
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Thinking of you!
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  &  - March 22nd 2006 Our family is now complete.
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26-06-2006, 05:06 PM
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carys's mammy
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Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: Chester-Le-Street
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oh karen Im so sorry
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26-06-2006, 05:13 PM
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J's Wife - Will's Mummy
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: From NI, now in Yorkshire
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Do take the time to chill and make plans once you are in Australia.
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26-06-2006, 05:36 PM
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Tired new Mummy!
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Bristol
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Sorry to hear this Karen!
All break ups are totally heartbreaking but its really nice that you think you will remain close friends.
Hope your time in Oz will help you come to terms with it all and clear your head!
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27-06-2006, 04:20 AM
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Smug Mrs
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Dorset
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So sorry to hear this Karen. Let me know if there is anything I can do.
Thinking of you.
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27-06-2006, 04:57 AM
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Baby on the way!!
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Dublin...........the fair city!!
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 I am so sorry to hear that karen but you sound like a very strong person and you will get through this xx
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Married my soulmate 1st October 2005
Remember that the things around you are never as important as whose arms are around you.
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27-06-2006, 06:07 AM
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Registered User
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Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: London
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Awwww sweetheart I am so very sorry to hear your news. Australia sounds like a fine idea so you can get away for a few weeks to chill & get some me time.
You know where I am if you need an ear.
Lots of love xx
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27-06-2006, 07:25 AM
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Ryans proud mummy
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Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Middlesbrough
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Sending lots of love your way Karen. I am very very sorry to hear your news.
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28-06-2006, 03:21 AM
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The Cat's Mother
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Ye olde seaside hamlet of Sydernee
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You can work through this Karen. It may surprise you, but many marriages go through the "I only love you as a friend" stage, but come through the other side. It takes a hell of a lot of effort to get it back to being in love, and heaps of committment from both parties. I guess it just depends whether the both of you are committed enough to do this. It's certainly not all hearts and flowers all the time, as we all know, but you shouldn't take what he's feeling now as a forever feeling - with some work you can possibly get things back on track - unless of course, "falling out of love" is an excuse for something else. Not that I'm saying it is.
Please don't take this as the end of anything. Consider seeing a marriage counselling service, whether together or individually.
Mrs G xx
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28-06-2006, 04:51 AM
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Registered User
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Join Date: Feb 2005
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Oh karen,
I'm really sorry to hear this. Remember if you need any support or to talk we are all here on Groovy.
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28-06-2006, 06:34 AM
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Oy, watch it, Spaceman!
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Vodka - cheaper than botox and paralyses more muscles 
Carys Grace was born 29th June 2007 5:01am weighing 7lbs 8oz 
William Robert born 21st Dec06
It is true that we don't know what we have till we lose it, but its also true that we dont know what we have been missing till it arrives 
My beautiful son Ryan arrived 6th August 2006 at 7.10pm weighing 7lb 6oz 
"Cats are smarter than dogs. You can't get eight cats to pull a sled through snow." 