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am thinking about having a look around for mr right. trouble is mr right may not be interested in a bird in a wheelchair with 3 kids and a terminal cancer diagnosis, so a limited life span. any ideas- or single male friends?
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Stephanie Louise, 30th June 1994
Alix Rose, 16th April 2003
Ewan Douglas, 22nd February 2005
"I should be crying but i just cant let it show,
I should be hoping but i cant stop thinking"
Kate Bush: This womans work
You're a great person and I'm sure Mr Right will see past all that and feel blessed to share any available time with you as well as have a ready made family to become a part of.
Just don't give up hope
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Laurie
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Married Al on Valentines Day 2006
Wyatt born 13th January 2007 & Baby #2 due 7th January 2009
I hope that my child, looking back on today
Will remember a mother who had time to play;
Because children grow up while you're not looking,
There are years ahead for cleaning and cooking.
So, quiet now cobwebs go to sleep.
I'm nursing my baby, and babies don't keep.
You never know, people can surprise you sometimes. Just be yourself and hide nothing - that way you'll know they are genuinely interested in you as a person and accept those bonus extras you happen to come along with (like 3 kids, or an enthusiasm fof life no matter what is around the corner).....
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my get up and go has got up and gone...........
Nothing extra to add cause everyone has summed it up perfectly. From what I read in your posts you are an amazing woman and an inspiration and any man would be lucky to have you
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Jenny xx
Married my soulmate 1st October 2005
Remember that the things around you are never as important as whose arms are around you.
thanks all. i feel a bit better now. had my hair done last week and they straightened it for me- i had been walking round with the curls that appeared when my hair regrew after the chemo so i didnt bother trying to do anything with it. now however i have looked my straighteners out and look less like a cancer patient. does take more time to do my hair now but all worth it in the long run
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Stephanie Louise, 30th June 1994
Alix Rose, 16th April 2003
Ewan Douglas, 22nd February 2005
"I should be crying but i just cant let it show,
I should be hoping but i cant stop thinking"
Kate Bush: This womans work
Kirsty I meant to add to this and forgot. Now this may well be rambly but bear with me.
The one thing I have learnt over recent years is life is short - too short. Not one of us knows when our time is up. It may be an illness, accident or plain drop down dead with no apparant reason. I've seen all three of those in recent years and I know there are many more people out there that have. Does that make me afraid to love? No. It makes me want to love more. I want to make the most of what time I have and be happy with it.
Yes you have a terminal illness and it will be a great man that goes into a relationship with you knowing that. But there are great men out there and if they're genuine and get the chance of genuine love with a genuine woman then it doesn't matter how long that's going to be for. I don't think you can put a time scale on the real thing.
Ok now this is where I get corny I remember watching Titanic and crying my heart out afterwards. I remember saying if I could have that sort of love for five minutes of my life that I would jump back onto a sinking ship for someone then I'd die happy. Corny yes but up till then I'd never had that - apart from my kids but this is a different sort of love I'm talking. Well then I met my Brian and now I have it. You know if my Brian had been ill when I met him I'd not have turned down the chance of that five minutes of real love for anything. Now I'm pretty sure I'm not the only person in the world that thinks like that so as long as you're here then there's as much hope for you finding it as the next person
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Vodka - cheaper than botox and paralyses more muscles
Wyatt born 13th January 2007 & Baby #2 due 7th January 2009
I hope that my child, looking back on today
Will remember a mother who had time to play;
Because children grow up while you're not looking,
There are years ahead for cleaning and cooking.
So, quiet now cobwebs go to sleep.
I'm nursing my baby, and babies don't keep.
Couldn't agree with Ang more. Life has taught me the same and if it all ends now I would be so grateful for the love I have had in my life and I would be glad I took the risk when it would have been so much easier to walk away.
Mr Right will love you no matter what
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Married Rob on 4th June 2004 in Altrincham, Cheshire
Grace Kathleen arrived on 22nd July 2006 at 11.34pm, weighing 6lbs 12oz
My angels - October 2005, September 2007 and May 2008. Never forgotten xx
Also, i have a friend who has battled breast cancer for quite a few years and also has multiple sclerosis.
She thought exactly the same way that you do right now, that she would never find anyone who would ever want to be with her, and that even if she did find someone that they would have to be some kind of weirdo who just wants to care for a sick person! She honestly thought that! Issues or what! lol. She even told me at one point that she should have just stayed with her ex-husband as it would have been better than nothing!
But anyway, the point is, she has now found a man who she calls "the love of her life". I have never seen her so happy! And this man is a really genuine, great guy! They ARE out there!!!
thinking about it..
What Laurie says.
Vodka - cheaper than botox and paralyses more muscles 
Married my soulmate 1st October 2005 
It is true that we don't know what we have till we lose it, but its also true that we dont know what we have been missing till it arrives 
I remember watching Titanic and crying my heart out afterwards. I remember saying if I could have that sort of love for five minutes of my life that I would jump back onto a sinking ship for someone then I'd die happy. Corny yes but up till then I'd never had that - apart from my kids but this is a different sort of love I'm talking. Well then I met my Brian and now I have it. You know if my Brian had been ill when I met him I'd not have turned down the chance of that five minutes of real love for anything. Now I'm pretty sure I'm not the only person in the world that thinks like that so as long as you're here then there's as much hope for you finding it as the next person 
Married Rob on 4th June 2004 in Altrincham, Cheshire
Grace Kathleen arrived on 22nd July 2006 at 11.34pm, weighing 6lbs 12oz
23rd April 2005 
Karen and Craig 9th May 2006 
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