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Old 17-10-2007, 06:29 PM
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my decree is going through

It is going to the court on the 7th November then 6 weeks after that I can get my decree absolute and then I am divorced.

scary stuff. It all seems so final
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Old 17-10-2007, 06:33 PM
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Old 17-10-2007, 07:01 PM
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That's good news.
I'm sure it will be a weird day, but try and party or do nice things and remember it was for all the right reasons.
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Old 18-10-2007, 03:49 AM
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Great news. Just in time for the new year too!
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Old 18-10-2007, 04:32 AM
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Thats great news for you.
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Old 18-10-2007, 07:05 AM
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My advice:

1. Make a copy of your decree absolute when received

2. Take copy of decree absolute and insert hologram your slim, beautiful smiling face over it

3. Make decree absolute - complete with smilie face into jolly Christmas card. If you're feeling creative, edge card with holly and jingle bells, perhaps a nice rudolf picture

4. Send in post to ex husband

5. Relax with big glass of something alcoholic and laugh hard and loud whilst inviting your fit new bloke over for a shag!!

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Old 18-10-2007, 07:40 AM
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And I love Dawnie's suggestion, but to be honest I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of knowing that you had even noticed it in the post...
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YAY excellent news Karen. One thing I will forewarn you of. No matter how much you're woohooing now and want this, when it actually comes through be prepared for a feeling of sadness. It's not that you don't want it, or that you'd go back or anything like that. It's just in a funny weird way it's a feeling of failure you get - I can't explain it but everyone I know that's got divorced even when they've wanted it have felt it. Anyway it's very short lived thankfully and then you party
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Old 18-10-2007, 08:54 AM
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YAY excellent news Karen. One thing I will forewarn you of. No matter how much you're woohooing now and want this, when it actually comes through be prepared for a feeling of sadness. It's not that you don't want it, or that you'd go back or anything like that. It's just in a funny weird way it's a feeling of failure you get - I can't explain it but everyone I know that's got divorced even when they've wanted it have felt it. Anyway it's very short lived thankfully and then you party

I'm not all happy happy about it. I was just thrilled that the courts have there finger out there arse and getting it all sorted.

I do feel sad that this is happening it is the most horrible feeling to go through. I am dreading the day it comes through to tell me I am no longer married. Obviously in my heart I am no longer married. That ended the day I found out my ex had a new girlfriend. But I know in my head that I am still legally married and it scares me to be going through something so huge. I took a vow in front of friends and family and God and now I am breaking this vow. It makes me feel that I have let people down and getting the divorce makes it final. I wish I never had to go through this.
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Old 18-10-2007, 12:52 PM
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Karen - Massive hugs to you it is a great feeling when you know it is happening albeit tinged with sadness. I was excited when mu abs came through and phone Dave and said we are no longer married ex husband. Then got really depressed about it! It is shortlived and in my eyes everything happened for a reason as i am now married to a great bloke who is everything amd more i could ask for.
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Please dont beat yourself up - you've let no one down at all. Your good for nothing ex took care of letting YOU down and your family and friends.

Everyone will be pleased for you that you are now free to find someone who really deserves you.

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Nothing that is ahppening is your fault, Karen - I say just get on with life knowing this is not your choice, but you are abiding by it.

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Please dont beat yourself up - you've let no one down at all. Your good for nothing ex took care of letting YOU down and your family and friends.

Everyone will be pleased for you that you are now free to find someone who really deserves you.

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