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04-04-2002, 04:23 AM
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Mummy to Lissy
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Maidstone
Posts: 115
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What are your Worries??
Has anyone got any worries?? (obviously) What are they,
I have a worry of tripping over either getting out of car or walking down isle (I am so clumsy)
No one turning up (Empty church/Reception)
Food Poisoning from Food (Guest being ill after oh dear)
And Spilling stuff down my dress (I always miss my mouth)
Apart from those I am looking forward to it!!!!
I am also having Bad dreams, but will save them for later!
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 Alicia
 26th June 2003
 Married 24th Aug 2002
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04-04-2002, 04:30 AM
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cake???
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Scotland
Posts: 3,538
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i am worried about ppl not turning up (esp as most of them have to come a fair bit) Spilling something on my dress and nothing coming out when i try to take my vows, which has happened before when i get really nervous!
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7th Sept 2002
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04-04-2002, 04:33 AM
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Freya's Mummy.
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: The land of make believe
Posts: 8,406
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I am worried that i will fall over when i am walking up the ailse and the Vicar changing his mind and not marrying us!
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04-04-2002, 04:44 AM
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Mrs from Amsterdam
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Amsterdam
Posts: 2,403
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Loads of worries!
My main one is that all my family will be late. When my cousin got married, there was a mix up with hotels that resulted in a big delay for my family getting to the church. The entire family arrived 20 mins after the bride, and the entire side of the church was empty.  God only knows what the poor grooms family must have been thinking!!!
We are having a bbq on a boat after the wedding, and I keep having daydreams that the food will be no good, or everyone will get seasick (not much chance on a canal I know, but it keeps popping into my head!)
The other one is the obvious dress paranoia. Will it turn up on time? Will it fit? Will it look OK?
Wow - I sound like a wreck! I actually thought I was quite together about this wedding 
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Smug at last!
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04-04-2002, 05:53 AM
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Living Life in Colour
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Runcorn - Cheshire
Posts: 5,914
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Gawd the food down my dress!!!
we're having gravy with our meal too! I'm so worrying and dont wanna stick a napkin down my boobs cos i'll look like a prat...maybe I'll hold out on the gravy!
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So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails.
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04-04-2002, 06:04 AM
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Groovy Mummy
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Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: Brighton
Posts: 3,248
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Tripping down the Aisle for me. I am jsut about the most clumsy and accident prone person in the world - so there is a very good chance that I will trip up!
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04-04-2002, 06:05 AM
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Valentine Smuggie/New Mum
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Glossop
Posts: 9,898
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My BIGGEST fear is that Bob will change his mind before the day (again! He had a panic attack in November and we split up but only for a week thank God but I was a total wreck!!).
Aside from that, Bob is notorious for being late and his BM is even worse - I just hope they either make it on time for a change or that the registrar can wait. At least I'll only be upstairs in the hotel so won't have to keep driving round the block!
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Laurie
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I hope that my child, looking back on today
Will remember a mother who had time to play;
Because children grow up while you're not looking,
There are years ahead for cleaning and cooking.
So, quiet now cobwebs go to sleep.
I'm nursing my baby, and babies don't keep.
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04-04-2002, 06:32 AM
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Bubbly Blonde Wife
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Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Cheshire
Posts: 624
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I have quite a few worries...
1) Tripping up while i walk down the aisle
2) Getting tongue tide during the vows
3) Reception cancelling at the last moment
4) Dropping something down the front of my gorge dress
5) Not having enough money saved
6) Having a major panic attack the morning of the wedding
Apart from all of them I'm doing alright!!!!
Beeny
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04-04-2002, 06:57 AM
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Registered User
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Essex
Posts: 204
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Everythying really!!!!
no......the main one is dieting before the wedding, as long as i feel good and look good for myself, then ill be happy.
Everything will run smoothly I hope, if not, then it'll give everyone something to talk about!!
No worries on H2B not turning up front...he's more into the planning of it than me!!
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04-04-2002, 07:08 AM
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Mummy to Lissy
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Maidstone
Posts: 115
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Glad to see I am not alone!!!!!!
Surley we must have more important things to worry about, like whether everything comes together, but all I am concerned about is whether to buy a bib!!
Karen
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Alicia
26th June 2003
Married 24th Aug 2002
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04-04-2002, 07:25 AM
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Mummy to Daniel
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Wigan
Posts: 6,852
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I@m worrying about everything not looseing the weight i need to triping doen the alise and skidding on my belly to the alter . i worry about spillage too and about noone coming and about his dad hateing me more than he allready does
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Emma
Smuggie since Oct 2002
After lots of help our little  born on 28th Jan 2008
 when I kiss you goodnight I will
hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank
God for you, and ask him for nothing,
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04-04-2002, 07:29 AM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Posts: 7,033
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Hi
Its hit me recently that Ben & I are going to be the centre of attention on the day... which scares the HELL out of me!!!
The whole thing is petrifying. I'm even starting to think I'll look ridiculous in a strapless dress in a church! And everyone will be thinking how much I resemble godzilla..
And then there are the bizarre dreams... the other night I was really shaken by one and I'm not sure as I've recovered.
Daft isn't it?
There's also the worry about Ben not turning up - I'm with laurie on this one...
mel
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04-04-2002, 07:32 AM
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Mummy to Daniel
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Wigan
Posts: 6,852
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Michael will turn up i would not be responcible for my actions if he didn't but being the center of attention is a bit scary too
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Emma
Smuggie since Oct 2002
After lots of help our little born on 28th Jan 2008
when I kiss you goodnight I will
hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank
God for you, and ask him for nothing,
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04-04-2002, 11:40 AM
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Mama to Mathew
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Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: New house with nice heating
Posts: 7,253
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h2b spilling something down himself when we went out to for a nice meal he had steak pie and it went all down his nice clean shirt. we had to go all the way back home so that he could change.
or falling during my 1st dance and ending up on you've been framed. 
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 Married my sweetpea
Phew that was hard work!!
My little baby yeah not so much now my little man is now almost 3 years old !!  not a baby no more 
My little ginger man speaks spanish!!
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04-04-2002, 11:41 AM
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Mummy to Daniel
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Wigan
Posts: 6,852
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ending up pon u've been framed hadn't even thought about that do think there enough time to cancell the wedding and run off somewhere to do it
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Emma
Smuggie since Oct 2002
After lots of help our little born on 28th Jan 2008
when I kiss you goodnight I will
hold you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank
God for you, and ask him for nothing,
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04-04-2002, 01:40 PM
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Chilled B2B !!!
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Nottingham
Posts: 189
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In no particulkar order!
1) Miserable families!
2) fainting during ceremony (haven't fainted since I was about 5 - but everyone does it on You've Been Framed!!)
3) Crying during ceremony
4) Making a crap speech
5) Bestman making a rude speech
6) No-one dancing in evening
etc, etc, etc!!!
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04-04-2002, 01:45 PM
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Member
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: From St. Paul, MN, now in London!
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I don't know what sort of horrible things this says about me, but I have this fear of meeting some all around wonderful guy at the reception! It isn't that Ben isn't all around wonderful, but I would hate to have my head turned round at a time like that! I know it's irrational and horrible, but I can't imagine I'm the only one if everyone is totally honest...
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04-04-2002, 02:00 PM
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gRoovY mUMma!
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Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Hertfordshire
Posts: 5,361
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I am terrified!!
Scared of twisting my ankles, as I have very weak ones, esp in heels, forgetting Martins middle names, and and and.... To many to mention!!!
Fran
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Megan Louise McHugh 13th August 2003
Isabel Rose McHugh 5th November 2005
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04-04-2002, 02:28 PM
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b2b,mummy,student,worker!
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Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Lake District
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All of the above ( ) oh and having a row with my sil2b which i can garantee would probably be a definite!!
collettexx
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Friday 1st August 2003
 Marrying Ged in Lake District
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04-04-2002, 02:42 PM
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Valentine Smuggie/New Mum
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Glossop
Posts: 9,898
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Even if something goes wrong, make sure you see the funny side. When my CBM got married, her dad broke his leg 6 weeks before so was on crutches still.
We made light of it and decorated his crutch with ribbons on the day and he included it in his speech saying how he'd taken the flack of her husband by doing the honorable thing by him breaking HIS leg and not h2b.
It was a really good day!
(Still bored and lonely in the chat room )
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I hope that my child, looking back on today
Will remember a mother who had time to play;
Because children grow up while you're not looking,
There are years ahead for cleaning and cooking.
So, quiet now cobwebs go to sleep.
I'm nursing my baby, and babies don't keep.
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04-04-2002, 02:53 PM
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hello 
am ages away from my big day so the real panics havent set in yet but am having stress dreams ALREADY!!!
The thing that scares me most is that my mad controlling nature will take over and I will be so busy checking everything is okay and running to plan that I will forget to enjoy myself and not take it all in.
...must mention that when I was CBM for my friend I did the unforgivable and .........TROD ON HER VEIL JUST AS SHE BEGAN HER WALK DOWN THE AISLE
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