Controversial!! - How far on Hen Night!! - Wedding Forum

Kate · #1 (**permalink**) 04-04-2002, 01:43 PM

Just as a bit of a laugh - how far (given several buckets of cocktails!) would you go on your Hen Night (if no-one was to ever find out!!)

nikki · #2 (**permalink**) 04-04-2002, 01:58 PM

Do you know, that never crossed my mind til last week when someone told me it was my duty to have sex with a complete stranger on my hen night......

.......But really, being from Blackpool, where we are raised to have sex with strangers and be utter slappers, I think I've done enough of it by now so will probably pass..... and please God don't let me have to remove any underwear with my teeth......

Nikki
PS: Pls do not mention this to my mum, who is Mancunian and therefore entirely respectable!

Nikki xx

#3 (**permalink**) 04-04-2002, 02:53 PM

I absolutely could not do anything with another bloke on my hen night. I know loads of people think its your last chance, but if you think that way then why get married. Why not stay single for a bit longer and get married when you feel confident that you have done all the 'oat sowing you need'. I'd hate the thought of my h2b kissing or with another woman a couple of days before our wedding and I couldn't do it to him.

Laurie · #4 (**permalink**) 04-04-2002, 02:56 PM

It is incredibly unlikely (especially with my sister and future SIL there) but if I was really REALLY ratted, I could possibly go as far as snogging!

I know, I'm evil

(From bored and lonely in the chat room)

#5 (**permalink**) 04-04-2002, 03:10 PM

I would nt do anything - spent a large anmount of time single and know i'm not missing anything now I have tex

dont mean to sound wet just am really happy and pissed up snogging never made me feel betterthan this......

just want to get drunk and get a suntan!!!

Em · #6 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 03:38 AM

A bit of flirting does nobody any harm, but there is no way in a million years I would/could consider snogging someone else.

Emx

roz · #7 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 03:44 AM

I don't think I would get away without undertaking some serious flirting!! Isn't it a pre-requisite!?

Shogging is hard though, unless someone dived on me!! I couldn't do the whole holding each others gaze while you work up the courage thing, that's far too sexy!!

Bev · #8 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 04:01 AM

I picked the first option, but solely because I'm not having a hen night and therefore not interested in looking at anyone else.

I have to say, even when drunk, I've never really looked at another man since I've met Mark - but then I didn't really look at men before so...

mella · #9 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 04:29 AM

Hi!

I've gone for the first option, too. Call me boring, but I'm just not interested in anyone else.

Mel
xxx

Laurie · #10 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 04:35 AM

But flirting is so much fun and doesn't mean a thing!!

I'm certainly not looking to get up to anything on my hen night as Bob is the only guy I've fancied in years! I couldn't even name a movie star when Bob asked me which blokes I find fanciable.

He is my world!

(Be careful not to

)

Carly · #11 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 04:46 AM

A bit of flirting, and a fireman stripper sounds fine to me! (fireman is a friend of my BM's!) Not bothered is H2B has a stripper or goes to a strip joint, but hes not bothered about all that.......so he says!

C xx

#12 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 05:26 AM

a snog, but probably with my maid of honour, as a bit of a laugh!

we have talked about it, and once dan and i are married it wont happen again.... i am dead certain about that!

has anyone else thought about that too?

J · #13 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 05:43 AM

Phew, glad everyone is plumping for no more than same-sex snogging

.

I'm utterly faithful too, but flirting I think is allowable (well, K said she would so I think I can!)

Jx

Beth · #14 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 06:35 AM

I picked the first option but I know I flirt anyway

Thing is there's harmless flirting (wot I do) then there's the not harmless flirting.... if you know what I mean!

stack · #15 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 06:35 AM

could probably go as far as flirting as everyone tells me thats what i do all the time

i think im just being friendly, but i think phil would have a fit. not having a 'hen night' having a joint party but wont be hanging onto each other all night.

dont want all the veil l plates and stripper

would rather have a nice

sorry if im

but im getting too old for all that now.

Taz · #16 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 06:35 AM

could only do flirting!

mella · #17 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 06:59 AM

Stace

I feel the same as you! I just want to have my kind of fun!

Its not like its our last chance at freedom or anything cos we're already living together etc.

Strippers, L-Plates etc. don't do it for me. Just ben, beer, friends, beach and music and I'm one happy mella.

(i left muffins off that list cos beer and muffins is bad!! one had to go)

Mel
xxx

nessa · #18 (**permalink**) 05-04-2002, 10:12 AM

I couldn't do anything with anyone now that I have got Ian.

I do flirt a little bit, but that is how I got together with Ian.

I just can't imagine doing anything with anyone else either!

Crumbs must be getting boring in me old age!

Ness