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aya guys, ive not been able to moan all day at work, being a hairdresser means i listen to other peoples gripes and not vice versa! anyhow, im a bit fed up 2 day coz i asked my father to lend me some money for the deposit for our wedding last night, and that i would be able to pay him next week when we gor paid and he has blatantly replyed no! i think i should say, b4 i sound like a spoilt bratt thta ive never borrowed money off my dad before coz im a bit funny bout stuff like that, but just once in my life i thought id swallow my pride and ask, im gutted! my sister was allways the 1 who borrwed money and got into debt and ive allways been the good girlie!!! oh dear wot a gripe neck i am!!! oh well, credit card here we come!!! soz bout the gripe, ive usually got a smile on my face no matter what!!!! xxxx
First WELCOME to Groovy, I am just down the road from you at the moment in Hallgreen. You don't do wedding hair do you? <cheeky>
Anyway, with regards to the dad thing, I think he probably doesn't realise what it took for you to ask? Maybe you could tell him 'it took a lot for me to ask you dad, you could have considerd it'.
Will your suppliers wait one week for the deposits for things?
Where abouts are you getting married?
I am crap at asking for help too, you have from me
Possibly he's tarnishing you with the same brush as your sister? Which isnt fair. Maybe, since your sister asked and got herself into debt that he's just a bit cautious.
It's so sad that he's gone about this in a negative way. But, maybe see it from his point of view about whats happened in the past with your sister and try to discuss this with him. (Even though its not right to tarnish you)
Im sure that this is not going to change things right now. But I'd be inclined to discuss it anyway. Just to see why he made this decision, otherwise your always gonna be wondering.
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aya chick, thanx 4 your msg, i think your right bout discussing it with my dad, i think when ive calmed down a bit ill go and have a word with him, i tell whats been really nice though, i mentioned the situation to a couple of close custommers at work, ( werent planning on it but got a bit upset!) ans they were so so nice and some of my old girlies were planning a whip round!!! which i obviously wouldnt accept, but it was so nice to have such lovely people round me. im mega lucky 2 have such nice friends and custommers!!! on a lighter note happy anniversary matey!!!! me and brian were 2 gether 10 years on jan 19th ahhhh bless! aint love grand aye!
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Possibly he's tarnishing you with the same brush as your sister? Which isnt fair. Maybe, since your sister asked and got herself into debt that he's just a bit cautious.
It's so sad that he's gone about this in a negative way. But, maybe see it from his point of view about whats happened in the past with your sister and try to discuss this with him. (Even though its not right to tarnish you)
Im sure that this is not going to change things right now. But I'd be inclined to discuss it anyway. Just to see why he made this decision, otherwise your always gonna be wondering.
Difficult one this. It could be that he doesn't have the money to actually lend it out. If he has got the money....maybe he'll ponder over the matter and eventually agree to lend.
If your sis has not paid back money in the past then he is probably worried you won't - maybe tell him you'll pay back in monthly installments or something to make him realize he will actually see his money again
How long off till the wedding?
Good luck and hope you get something sorted out with money.
I feel a little bit like an ATM machine at the moment...... but I am trying to cut corners where I can coz the whole thing can really start to mount up- there's so many things you can have......and you can get a bit carried away.
All very exciting though!
If you do have to wack stuff on the credit card then get the interest free one.
aya chuck thanx for your msg, feeling a bit better 2 day,think by nxt week well ave the money thang sorted! im just lucky that brian doesnt stress bout money, i do it 4 him!!! anyway, we get married sept 30th 2006, long way off i know, but were so bloody determined 2 do it by ourselves that we needed 2 book this far off to save up!!! im a mega organised lass though, so hoping i can use it 2 my advantage!!! we get married at the abbey park hotel in redditch worcs. just looking 4 ward to a brill day!!! things r lookin up its friday, were off on a v. cheap booze up and weve got bank hols to recover! happy easter matey!!! xxx
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Iya!
Difficult one this. It could be that he doesn't have the money to actually lend it out. If he has got the money....maybe he'll ponder over the matter and eventually agree to lend.
If your sis has not paid back money in the past then he is probably worried you won't - maybe tell him you'll pay back in monthly installments or something to make him realize he will actually see his money again
How long off till the wedding?
Good luck and hope you get something sorted out with money.
I feel a little bit like an ATM machine at the moment...... but I am trying to cut corners where I can coz the whole thing can really start to mount up- there's so many things you can have......and you can get a bit carried away.
All very exciting though!
If you do have to wack stuff on the credit card then get the interest free one.
bad start!!!
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but I am trying to cut corners where I can coz the whole thing can really start to mount up- there's so many things you can have......and you can get a bit carried away.
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