just wanted to make a statment here to get it off my chest for tonight, hope that okay,,,,, feeling that theres so much left to do such little time and im shattered, i think i will need more than a make over on the day i will need a whole face life, air pumped into my much deflated body, match sticks to keep open my eyes a new ear drum as i still have ear infection and a doctor for the well being of my mind, other than that im just fine

chill!!!!!!!!!!!

I really do believe that you will be more organised than me and we're getting married the same day!!

Im organising this wedding from 120 miles away so I cant do loads of the things youve probably already done until 2/3 days before - honestly, what have you got ot do? Make a big list and mark things off and also - just relax because on the day you should have the energy to enjoy it....read a book for 1/2 hour or take a relaxing bath but definitely relax a bit - hope youre okay - i do understand how you feel but try and talk to yourself how youd talk to a mate - you would say not to worry wouldnt you? And say all that matters is that you get married?

I know things arent that simple but do try and relax and feel free to reply

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your right AGAIN ha ha do you know you have become a tower of strength to me on here since i joined and it is nice to know someone out there is getting wed on the same day as me and i can talk about it with them, thnkyou for your time and support.
i know i should chill and i am sure i will at some point, like the day after the wedding ha ha not really.
i have quite a bit to do and appointments everyday as from this very day oh no i have sunday off and im going to drag by h2b round the shops to buy honey moon clothes and things so that will be great ha ha .
i am getting my wed cake tommorrow too so cant wait to see that.
just been typing out my order of service although they are harder than first thought its the little things that get me.
hope your feeling okay and apparently your 2 calm again ha ha .
i wish i was as kool as you are right now, how do you do it? have you got an awful lot to do?
are you getting wed in church and what kind of venue are you having interested to know.
keep intouch to our big days i really cant wait and i m0ost certainly cant wait to be WIFEY, but i am scared when your wedding rehersals, a day before?
thanks again matey for your help this site is a blessing

Hi

yep Im having church wedding - the whole shebang!

Still got quite a lot to do - wont be on here much after tonight (if at all) cos I am leaving to go to the town where we are getting married.

Im not that "cool" all the time trust me - I have my stress outs too and usually I do get really worried about things but for some reason I can deal with the wedding - dont understand!!! Just remember to take time out.

I know that I am completely and utterly shattered much more than I have been for a long time and it aint nice!!!

Anyways petal - you sound well organised! I dont even SEE my cake until I get to my reception!!!!

Yep rehearsal is night before and pick up dress next week ()terrified!)

Take Care, Have a Fantastic Day and Dont Worry If Wee Things Go Wrong - so long as you and your man get married what the heck else REALLY matters???xxxxxxxxxxxx

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