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She dont like some of dresses i want ...i know her fav is tulle! i give up i dont know what do ... i dont know what i pick! grrr i got 9 months and half a go i still panic i keep internet look for dress my h2b moan me tasha xx
__________________ I M GETTING MARRY TO MY LOVELY DARLIN ANDY IS ON 26th MAY 2007!
Tough - it's your day, not hers, so pick whatever you like the most and are happiest with. If you don't like tulle, don't wear it. If you want souffle, then go get it!
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Tasha at the end of the day what your mum wants shouldn't be an issue. It's your wedding. If you like it and want it then you go for it. A lot of mums try to relive their own dreams through their daughters wedding day. I'm not saying your mum's doing this because it wouldn't be fair to say so as I don't know her and also it's not all mums that do it.
You've already said you're not keen on tulle so stay away from it. You like the souffle style skirt which to be honest I think would suit you more than the tulle one you showed us the other day. That was a very pretty dress and I loved it but for someone who isn't a fan of tulle it was an awful lot of it and you probably wouldn't feel happy in it on the day.
Put what your mum wants to one side when choosing your dress and go for what YOU want. Don't look back on the day and wish you'd gone for what you wanted rather than settle for what your mum wanted. Are there any friends that you can go dress shopping with and then show your mum once you've made your decision? Or even make it a surprise for her on the day. I don't think there's a mum around that seeing her daughter on her wedding day would look and say but I didn't want you to have that dress and I'm sure your mum will be the same come the day.
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You should have the dress you will feel best in. Its your day and you don't want to regret your choice in years to come. Tulle isn't to everyones taste, although i love it :$
Can you maybe have tulle dresses for your bridesmaids? Just for your mum.
Thanks for suggest me .. i think some of you got good point! it is my wedding not hers! i will bring someone come with me go to see cariad shop in swansea on 1st october where i brought it so i dont like it with tulle she hold my deposit can look more dresses and decide which is one what i want suorpise for my mum on my wedding
tasha x
__________________ I M GETTING MARRY TO MY LOVELY DARLIN ANDY IS ON 26th MAY 2007!
Tasha, wear the dress YOU want to... It's YOUR wedding day not your mother's, so pick the one that makes you feel like a bride!!!!
Every dress is someones dream dress even if you hate it. I dislike tulle, so I'm not wearing it.
My mum loves lacy, frilly dresses with big skirts and stuff and she was picking out loads for me to try on. I refused and ended up with the dress I wanted.............. A Maggie Sottero "Dion". I love it and I don't care what anyone else thinks........
Be brave!!!
Tilly
Last edited by floridabride : 17-08-2006 at 10:09 PM.
I'm with the others Tasha, it's not up to your mum. You need to feel great on the day and if the Tulle dress doesn't do it for you then stay well away from it!
Another one here who agrees that its not your mums choice and you should get what you want.
Stick to your guns with this one as if you let her "win" this one, how much other stuff will she try and influence? Plus, you have to be totally happy with your dress as its such a big part of the day.
I agree with the others Tasha. Its you wedding, so you should choose the dress you want, not let your mum decide. Go for the one you love the most and feel happiest in.
__________________ Teresa and Paul - 2nd October 2004
It's difficult isn't it - because your mums opinion is important.
However, it's not the b-all and end-all. She is allowed her opinion but as has already been said, it's your day and the buck stops with you.
Decide on what you want - what makes you feel a million dollars - and stick with it honey.
Do you think your mum would change her mind on her perfect wedding outfit if you didn't like it? Probably not, because it makes her feel special so stick to your guns.
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Yeah it is my wedding i ve email to cariad who is own shop in swansea she is very nice and i trust her she is happy hold my despoit till i come back to her shop on 1st october then must order because i got 9 and half a months to go
cheers tasha x
__________________ I M GETTING MARRY TO MY LOVELY DARLIN ANDY IS ON 26th MAY 2007!
yeah she is hitched all time i met her in real life she is nice woman and so kind! better than others shop because i m lucky she hold my deposit i m glad met her she will move her new shop 5 time big than her shop
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