My hair was shoulder length when I got married and I also end up having the harshest face known to man if I scrape it off my face.
My hairdresser was absolutely fabulous.
She took half the hair up and left the rest of it down. However, she also left the very front of my hair down so that it framed my face.
The hair that she had taken up was then put into a fancy 'bun' and she weaved it in and out of itself so that my tiara would fit round it.
Unfortunately I was wearing a veil so you can't see it very well in my pictures, but I was really pleased with it.
Is that the sort of thing you'd be looking to do????
Dawn
P.S I'm sure that didn't make much sense, but I hope you got the gist of it.